SHARING EXPERIENCES

Assalamu'alaikum..
Today, I started my class~
First class Accounting... and the next is Basic Themes of Al-Qur'an..
The thing I want to share is what happen in the BTQ class ...
Our lecturer is a very young lecturer in his early 20...Brother Firdaus is what we call him...
A graduate from IIUM in Bachelor in Comparative Religion (major) and Islamic Finance (minor)..
and currently taking master in .... ( can't remember ) in IIUM ..so basically, him becoming our lecturer is some sort of practice...


OKAY...END WITH THE INTRO BOUT HIM..
here's the real deal...


What he told us are very encouraging and interesting~
1) enjoy your life as a student ~
     * enjoy studying ...
     * enjoy playing ...
     * enjoy everything that you do ...
BUT!! there's a very thin line between two types of enjoy ...

ENJOY = PLAYING HAPPILY ALL THE TIME       

         VS

ENJOY = DOING IT SERIOUSLY AND HAPPILY  

2) don't waste your time, your age.. your brain neuron on LOVE

He and his collegues did a research on what is the problem faced by students that makes them fail and so on..The result is LOVE!~

BD  : Why did your result drop ?

Boy : My girlfriend just dumped me..

BD  : Why did you fail your last paper ?

Girl  : I just knew that my boyfriend cheated on me ..   

SEE ??

he told us that, very little chance that your partner in university will be your partner in the future - husband..wife...you got out of university, you go to work...you'll meet new people..much more pretty..much more handsome..kinder...younger...smarter...whatever~ so, just close your heart for others...but for now only...open it when you're ready~

He told us kinda lots of story of his experience in handling a few cases .. I will only put two story as it's the only story that is fresh and detailed story in my mind .. ( since it's regarding religion, it have to be precise and detail )

1st CASE 

*BD stands for BROTHER DAUS

A group of people@student met him said that they want to apostate ... they want to become a christian ..

BD      : WHY ?

THEM : Christanity is easy ... can drink..smoke..do sex..for women,no need to cover aurah...and many     more...

BD      : THAT'S STUPID ! (he's not saying the religion is stupid.. NO ! what he meant is the thinking of the group that takes it quite lightly)..Christanity don't allow you to drink..drunk...you can't do sex(bfore marriage=zina)..and you can't wear sexy clothes...

THEM : But why did we see christians drink,smoke and etc .. ?

BD      : Because they're bad christians...which will end up in hell according to christanity ... the same goes to Islam ..to being a muslim ... why do you have to choose the other way, if you'll end up in the same destination which is hell ?? If you becomes a bad christian, you'll end up in hell...If you becomes a bad muslim, you'll end up in hell as well .... SAME RIGHT ?

So, that group think and so, till now, ALHAMDULILLAH, they're still in ISLAM ... while BD and his friends@member@whatever are trying hard to make them to become a good muslim ...

2nd CASE

There's a case of a 15-year old girl pregnant..and a 17-year old boy is the father for the baby ...

The boy's family wanted the girl to abort the baby..but then, BD said "you've committed a very big sin which is ZINA. and now you want to commit another big sin which is killing ??? It's better if you keep the baby...repent your sin by being a good father and mother and takes VERY GOOD CARE of the baby" so, the girl didn't abort the baby...and they were asked to get married...during the NIKAH ceremony, the boy needs to recite the 'KHUTBAH NIKAH' that lines up the responsibilities of a husband and a father ... and that boy cried during reciting it..since he knew himself that it's pretty much impossible for him to do all of it...17-year old !! working ??!! everyone during the ceremony were crying ..(sad that their daughter..son..have to get married at a very young age..not knowing the hardships of life yet..) ...

SO, BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING FOOLISH, THINK OF THE CONSEQUENCES FIRST !!

there's a lot of things that he share with us.., he's a very good lecturer...he knows how to attract students..he uses different approach than other Ustaz or ustazah ....insyaALLAH, I will share more  things that I'll get in the future~ sharing is caring and caring is loving..and I love everyone that want to become someone good and better...

  

Freshgirl in UNI life 2

Assalamu'alaikum ~~

All praises to ALLAH ( Alhamdulillah ), I've safely arrived at IIUM Gombak Campus yesterday.  Quite a tiring day - all those packing and unpacking stuff seriously making someone drench in sweat BUT our campus is down the hill which means, we're sweating but the temp is COOL !!


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Seriously, never thought the campus that I went 2 years ago as an observer for an english debate competition will be my campus ! (Mahallah yg sme plak tuu)..

First time msuk blik die, sgt la terkejut sbb dapat yg satu compartment 2 org..sgt cramp ~ bayangkan, compartment utk 1 org ngan compartment utk 2 org saiz die sme je ~ tapi bile mengenangkan sahabat2 yang tgh struggle hidup kt kampus PJ tu, rse sgt bersyukur sgt2 !! 

Kalau kt PJ , panasnye huiihh !! toksah dok cite la. Kehangatannye membara ~ tapi kt situ, nk gi kelas xjalan jauh sgt ... 

Kalau kt Gombak nie, makngaih !! sejuuk gler ~ malam2 memang sejuk~ bangun2 suara seksi-seksa sgt ! tapi nk pi kelas, jalan mmg jauh ~ imagine, 1km in the morning, 1km in the evening ... 

perhh !! it's really an exercise until to the extend, my friend's mum said to her > " Kalau kamu xkurus lagi, mak xtau la ~ " dah tu ade female sport complex plak tuu ... 

TAPI TAPI TAPI !! 

swimming pool die bkak weekdays je .. 5pm ke atas... kami kami dak foundation ni kls dah la pack..smpi ke petang ..dah tu nk balik ke mahallah dah jauh... kang msuk2 swimming pool, kaki cramp terkejut ... jalan byk2 pstu pi terjun air ... weekend xbukak .. memang la sisters dok dlm bilik mengembangkan badan je kejenye..dah xde bnde boleh buat ... xpe2 ... weekend ikat perut ~ haha...

But, I really hope the bi'ah in here will be nearly the same with the one at my old school ...
Ak ni pon bukannye baik sgt ... byk lagi bende yg kne blajar ~ untung dpt sme compartment ngan sorang dak dq ~
Tapi walau ape pon, kne blajar utk mlakukan byk sacrifices kt sni... 1 sacrifice is living in a small room ... memang xselesa, tapi lebih selesa daripada mereka2 yg kat pj .. zaman Rasulullah dulu pon tentu-tentunya facilities xbyk ... so, ble dh ade facilities kt keliling ni, kne la pndai menghargai ~ dan cara nk menghargai is dengan menggunakannya dengan sebaik-baiknye, sehabis mungkin la.. (org dah bgi, gune je ~)

Eventhough sni dipanggil islamic university, ade je yg msuk yg sblum ni xde basic arab...ade je yg msuk sni sbnarnye free hair...ade je yg msuk snie xde basic agama sgt..ade je yg msuk sni mengaji masih merangkak...

TAPI itu bermakna,

 ALLAH ingin memberi mereka-mereka, kami-kami, satu environment yang sgt boleh dijadikan turning point..bak kate ade sorang brother senior ni, --> msuk sni, tutup bku lame..

kalo dlu kte jahat, tutup cte tuu..tokse diungkit mlainkan utk pengajaran org lain..

kalau dlu kte baik...pegang jawatan blambak, budak BADAR (Badan dakwah dan kerohanian), tutup bku tuu dan jadikan itu pengalaman utk jdi yg lebih baik kt snie..

Tipu lah kalau xrse yg tanggungjwb sgt besar kt sni..

perasaan utk menyampaikan ape yg dh blajar dlu membuak-buak tapi ..........

kekuatan utk itu masih perlu dikumpulkan dulu ....

bukan senang bab2 mcm ni...

lagipon, ilmu yg nk disampaikan kne btul sahih, 

kalo salah ajaran tpi still iman ok, boleh lagi..

kalo salah ajaran smpi iman jdi goyah, ituu payah..

FRESHGIRL FOR UNI LIFE ~

woah!!~ today is like the last day i'm going to be non-employed..non-student !! (dah lbih kul 12 kre hari ahd dah la~)


ISNIN 4 JUN i'll be officially UIA's student...


seriously, xtau nk buat ape skang ni..
sblum nie minx maaacam2 scholarship~~
BANK NEGARA..KHAZANAH..DAN LAIN2~~
and the only thing I was called for interview is MARA...though it's just a study loan...
I choose australia for my 1st choice aaand UK for my 2nd choice...
yg sedihnye, me and my friends choose the same aand NO ONE got it !
only 1 person got it but he made it UK for his 1st choice (i think so..since this is the course MARA agrees to support him)..me and my friends were informed that people who chose that course (UK) mostly managed to get it......but as for our 1st choice??? hmm...i don't know about other school's student ..but my school...non of us got it...


It'll be one big fat lie if I said I'm not sad..not frustrated..not feeling down....  I did ... 
BUT 
How long do I want to stay unmotivated ? Forever ? Just for a study LOAN ?? hmmph.. NOT WORTH IT~


So I came up with LOTS and LOTS and VERY LOTS of good reasons of what that had happen so far..
 1 .  ALLAH know the best ... 
 2.  Maybe, my inner self ain't that strong enough to let me face the western culture ...
 3.  Maybe, my IMAN is not strong to let me go through years in a non-muslim country ...
 4.  Maybe, I won't score a very colourful flying marks .. and thus makes me HAVE TO payback quite a great sum of money ... and who knows ... My family's financial condition might not gonna be like now in the future ... so how am I suppose to pay it back ?? In debt forever ? whuuh..no no... Poor my future family (husband..kids...) 
 4. Maybe, I'll fall for western guy that is very mucho mucho handsome~ (haha..this is really one stupid thinking..)
5.  IIUM isn't that bad ~ it's an INTERNATIONAL ISLAMIC UNIVERSITY~ 
                                           # International ?           - check-
                                           # Islamic surrounding ? - check-
                                           # Payable ?                  - check-


 6.  Hmm..all the goodness is inside it... ( cam iklan minuman je.. )
 7.  I can strengthen my belief in ISLAM.. in RASULULLAH ... in ALLAH through the USRAH program...and so many more~



SO NOW !! To all my dear friends that might did not get their hands on what they want , remember this,
what we want can't always be the best for us... what we don't want won't always be bad for us ~


LIFE MIGHT NOT GONNA BE AS YOU PLAN, BUT IT'S ALWAYS ACCORDING TO ALLAH'S HAND AND IT'S THE BEST FOR US ...


REGRETTING A DESICION IS GOOD ...AS THAT MAKES YOU HUMAN BUT STANDING UP FROM REGRET MAKES YOU A BETTER AND STRONGER HUMAN


RAINBOW WILL ONLY FILL UP THE HEART AFTER A HEAVY RAIN ... SO, WEAR A RAINCOAT (IMAN AND AD-DUA') AND WALK THROUGH THAT RAIN WITH PROUD


NEVER EVER RUN FROM PROBLEMS AS IT'LL ONLY MAKES US TIRED OF RUNNING ..OUR ENERGY WILL BE FINISH OF ALL THOSE RUNNING AND SIGHING ... SO START DOING THINGS TO SOLVE THAT PROBLEMS...IT'S BETTER TO RUN OUT OF ENERGY SOLVING SOMETHING RATHER THAN RUNNING AND LEAVING IT UNSOLVED


(ala, macam main game gak...spatotnye kene bunuh zombi2..tapi kalo dok lari memanjang..time out..energy skit..zombi sume masih mengejar2...kite gak yg kalah akhirnye kan ?? )


TO ACCEPT (REDHA) SOMETHING IS GOOD ... BUT NEVER EVER ACCEPT AND NOT DOING ANYTHING (PASRAH) ... 


THE BEST WAY - ACCEPT IT, AND THINK OF A WAY TO MAKE WHAT HAPPEN A WIN FOR US .. ( jdikan ape yg jadi sbagai penggerak utk lebih berusaha..)




# oukay~ it seems my philosopher mode is turn on ! haha
 hope this can put anyone out there that have a problem to turn on their energy (you'll need very much energy to fight you know ?~)


UIA ~~ HERE I COME ~~ ( hoping sgt bi'ah die sme cm skola lme..klo lagi bgus ..lagi mantap!!~)